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  • Writer's pictureAjay Manaktala

What to Wear to an Indian Wedding

Updated: Oct 7, 2019

Invited to your first Indian or South Asian Wedding and a bit worried on what to wear or which fashion options to choose? Every weekend I meet folks just like you, so I put this comprehensive photo guide so you can quickly understand the outfits for each event and average prices.

What do you wear to an Indian wedding?

  1. Mehndi: You should wear a colorful kurta. (long shirt)

  2. Sangeet: A suit or a Jodhpuri (Indian blazer)

  3. Wedding Ceremony: A different colorful kurta and a turban if you're close to the groom (they'll give you one if they want you to wear one, called a "pagdi")

  4. Reception: A suit.

What not to wear to an Indian Wedding?

  • Wedding Ceremony: Don't wear all white or any black.

  • Reception: Don't dress fancier than the groom or bride.

Many first timers at Indian weddings simply buy one kurta and think they're good.

Then they attend the event and either feel overdressed or underdressed, or unsure why everyone is looking at them strangely because they're wearing all white. (we wear that at funerals in parts of India). There are actually a lot more straightforward guidelines to consider about color, cuts, average prices and what not to do when choosing your outfit.


What to wear to an indian wedding as a guy guest
All my explanations and caveats are below, but here's some quick info. Read below for your follow up questions. For wedding column, dark blue is ok but try to go with the color the groom is suggesting (yes, ask him or bride).

What to wear to an Indian Wedding as A Guest

You want to wear colorful and happy colors for both men and women.

1. Can you wear ALL WHITE to an Indian wedding?

Answer: TRY AND AVOID! But some South Indian folks have a Lungi (like a longer Scottish kilt) in which they do wear white. I would avoid though unless stated otherwise.

2. Can you wear black to an Indian wedding? Answer: It depends!

  • No to the mehendi. It's meant to be a colorful affair.

  • Yes to the Sangeet.

  • No to the wedding ceremony. (you might see older guys wearing black suits but try not to. If you go Indian anywhere, please wear your Kurta here)

  • Yes to the reception or any suit will do.

3. Can you wear red?

Yes, but if the bride is wearing red on her wedding ceremony, try not to match it.

4. Can I just wear a suit or cocktail dress?

Yes, but these days with such cheap options on Amazon, don't be that annoying guest who came in jeans or didn't even care to spend $50 on an outfit when the hosts are probably spending $150 per event to have you there. Embrace the customs and be a part of the festivities, otherwise don't be a buzz kill.

5. When in Doubt, just do what's on the Invite or Emails or Wedding Website!

Ultimately every wedding will have their own themes and styles and customs, so if the invite says something specific feel free to check out guidelines with other guests or your host!

Indian wedding attire for men and women first time
It's all about playing dress up with your friends bro! These were outfits for the Mehendi!

Detailed Info By Event, How to Select and Sample Prices

Indian wedding guest attire isn't as complicated as what the families have to wear. Thank goodness! This is a short read so my aim is to simplify, that's it.

Before we begin, you probably also have no clue what a lehenga or sherwani is. I'm also going to guess you have no idea about prices either. That being said, rather than a big long post about what each outfit means, I'm just going to tell you price ranges and what you'll probably need.

A lot of white people/non-Indians make the mistake of buying something crazy over the top, then they look even fancier than the groom! Don't do that!

You can easily send your outfit option to your buddy before buying to check if it's fine, OR if you're close to them you might be part of the groom party and he'll organize it for you.

If you're attending a Hindu wedding as a guest, and you're colleagues of the bride/groom at a big fortune 500 or something...these outfit are perfect for "Hey, I got swag and I did it right!" AKA Guest territory!

You can wear this at the mehendi, sangeet or actual wedding ceremony.

What to Wear to a Mehendi or Indian or a Hindu Wedding Ceremony a a Male guest?

A kurta (long shirt) and a bandi (vest) are your safe bets. These are generally the swag that's in for 2019-2020. (Pink is done to death so try to avoid).

What is a Kurta?

Kurta: the top Full Sleeve shirt part. Normally a solid color but occasional minimal patterns fine.

Amazon USA Kurta outfit for a Mehendi for a guy who's 5'8 and 165-175 pounds

Amazon USA Sangeet Outfit for a guy 5'8 who is also 165-175 pounds.

Bandi: the vest, can be pretty much any pattern/style. Above have patterns, the one I am wearing below is solid.

what to wear sangeet america
I'll never wear this Bandi (Vest) again!

Churidar: the pants

  • Yes you'll need them.

  • No you'll probably never wear them again.

  • Yes they're supposed to look like the waist can fit 3 people.

  • If you buy using the amazon links above they should come with the MC hammer pants that taper around your calves.

  • The Pants by themselves shouldn't cost more than $25 to $35 tops.

Churidhar waist size too big.
Men, yes..your kurta's pants (churidhar) are meant to have a wasit that can fit two. You have to tie the drawstring, and it should hug your calves so the bottom is tight around your lower legs.

PRO TIP: If you're reading this well after 2019, another great tip is to simply look on Instagram for #indianWedding, see some curated professional photographer's pictures, check the tags for the designer of the clothes and figure out what you like from there. Then you can easily get someone online in India to make it for you, or just take the images to your local shop and they'll show you stuff that looks the part.

For the Sangeet

You can wear royal navy blue or black even.

Suits are fine, but again for the non-relative guest, these dark kurta and bandi combinations work great, or the stylish cuts as well on the right. Nice touch with the hanky too!

what to wear sangeet USA

For the wedding Reception wear a suit

Which you already got I assume is fine. Just don't wear a full on tuxedo, as again, that's for the groom to shine in.

what to wear indian wedding reception usa
This is the groom. Don't get a crazier tuxedo than the group! You wear a suit ok?

How Much do Indian Wedding Clothes Cost in America?

One set of the kurta and pants will run you between $60 and $150 USD if you buy in America, maybe half that range in India depending on the quality.

You can get two of the Kurta outfits and you're covered for 2/3 of the events, the other event likely you'll just be fine with a suit or tuxedo.

Here's an example of something overpriced.

You can get that in India for like $150 retail, so I would assume in America you should target $250/$300 tops.