Indian Destination Wedding | Ultimate Guide | 2023-2024
Updated: Sep 3, 2022
Indian destination weddings are awesome. They're like a high school reunion with people you want to see and usually are 3 day affairs complete with sun, sand, photos, food, booze and beautiful clothes.
Planning an Indian destination wedding, on the hand...can be a different kind of fun.
and a bunch of other stuff that doesn't come to mind when you think of a beach!
The Rise of Destination Indian Weddings
2022 has seen the most we've ever seen, along with the amazing Ranveer-Deepika, Priyanka-Jonas and Ambani-Beyonce Bollywood weddings. There's no more exciting time than wedding season for middle-class Indian families across the world and for good measure.
People who once hung out every day get to catch up, there is plenty of food and drink, love and culture are celebrated and even business deals are struck. But of course if there is one thing Indians are known for across the world, it's our obsessive hospitality.
And you'll never see hospitality more evident than the Big Fat Indian wedding.
There's a joke in Indian wedding planning. Oh you thought the wedding was for you two? No no, it's for your families!
As a result of all the beautiful weddings we see daily on Pinterest, it's no secret that these days newlywed's are constantly looking for the perfect indian destination wedding experience.
Destination South Indian Wedding Locations for 2019
Hawaii (Oahu and Maui and Kauai)
Cancun, Tulum, Playa Del Carmen and Other Mexican Cities
Thailand (Bangkok, Phuket, Chang Mai)
Sri Lanka (Bentota, excellent value for money these days)
India (Udaipur and Jaipur and Goa)
Bahamas and Caribbeans
Italy (Lake Como thanks to Bollywood)
How Much Does a Destination Indian Wedding Cost?
How much does a big fat destination Indian wedding cost? For 300 people, about $220,000 over 3 days with ALL expenses. Yes you'll save on half the guest-list, but you'll spend a lot more on making sure those who made the trek have a fantastic time. We see it all the time, even if people planned to spend just $85,000.
For example, If a Los Angeles City wedding costs $120,000 for 300 people across 3 days, you'll likely spend the same for 150 people in Oahu or Maui, maybe 5 to 10% more.
You'll probably end up spending the same amount had you had it in Los Angeles or Chicago.
Generally when the father of the bride realizes about 40 of his old medical school friends or family from India are coming, he wants to host them a day early, or rent out a restaurant for dinner to catch up, or spend more time going to beaches, etc..
Factors That Affect Destination Wedding Costs
We have a full guide on Indian wedding costs in US cities here. You can read that, but the main extra destination wedding costs end up being:
Family Hotel Rooms and Family Flights (Many family members want to pay for some or all of their relatives rooms).
Two to three reconnaissance trips to Hawaii/Mexico wherever to figure everything out.
Pre and Post wedding day holidays for close family who wants to spend more time together.
Room hampers which include welcome and goodbye gifts for guests.
Wedding vendors like planners, photographers, DJs and caterers. Even in Phuket you will fly a lot of people in from Bangkok, for example.
Transportation within your destination! (e.g. airport shuttles for everybody, venue transportation).
Season and calendar time of year (aka Chinese New Year will be a rip off in Thailand and December is expensive flights and hotels in India).
Your GUESTLIST has To Be First In Destination Shaadi Planning
Only when you know who is coming and where they'll come from can you then figure out the location. If your mom's sister can't travel to a certain country or sea plane isn't happening for a 86 year old, don't go too far off the grid!
5 Major Mistakes Nobody Tells Destination Wedding Couples (Must Read)
You remember all those jokes about Indian Standard time growing up right? (e.g. If you want them there at 9PM, tell them it starts at 7PM). It's hard enough for get 10 people to be on time to dinner.
How do you ensure doing it for 200 is an enjoyable process? Gujarati and Punjabi and Pakistani and South Indian weddings...they all run on Indian Standard Time!
I've DJ'd over 100 destination weddings and planned about 50, so I understand the nuances of Desi culture, Bollywood music and Indian food that is required when traveling for your destination wedding. As you think about the budget and how much a destination wedding costs...all of these factors will influence your decision.
So many couples find the perfect spot but not the perfect surroundings or situation for THEIR UNIQUE FAMILIES.
So if you're planning a destination Indian wedding please read this first don't make these simple mistakes!
1. BEACH EQUALS HEAT
We often think of that beautiful sunset photo of the bride and groom kissing with the magestic ocean in the background. What we don't see is the 200 guests in blazers and dresses sweating and hungry.
When you plan for a beach wedding, make sure to think about:
the weather and season,
shade versus no shade,
sand in dress shoes
backups for rain
A beautiful wedding is nice but so is being comfortable. Alcohol also dehydrates people in the heat.
Also, make sure your perfect photo is not being photobombed by an oil tanker offshore, other tourists in the sand, and of course spending extra to have shade/mist fans for your guests.
PRO TIP: If your hotel price seems to good to be true, remember a Sunrise hotel won't have a Sunset by your mandap (it's probably on the wrong coast of the island).
If grandma can easily walk from her room to the wedding area easily you're good to go. Which leads me too...
2. Hotel is Too Large or Spread Out
Beautiful hotel resorts are each like their own cities. Do you really want your guests to call a golf cart from the lobby, or walk 18 minutes to the ballroom, at night, while getting bit by mosquitos or getting lost while drunk?
When you pick one of these resorts, imagine being a guest who is constantly moving from their room to the wedding functions. Some hotels are beautifully laid out and some aren't.
Think about which 40 guests will be in this wing, which 50 in the other hotel wing, etc..
The last thing you want is paying a huge rate for a gorgeous property but people just feeling exhausted by the time they get comfortable, or annoyed they have to trek back to their room for 19 minutes just because they forgot their suntan lotion.